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Tea Chat: Romance with Companions

Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2022 2:41 pm
by windyjune
February 4th, 2022- Romance with Companions

Introduction


Today we will talk about romance with our companions: how they develop and why they can develop. It is very possible to develop a romantic connection with companions and many people enjoy having this type of relationship. As you connect, meet and form bonds with companions you will start to feel that there are very strong bonds with some. When you first bring home a companion you will notice different relationships and levels of intimacy form with each, you may feel different energy with them. This is normal since some companions you might have known in past lives and others you might simply have that spark or connection with. From Akelta’s personal experience when she met her companion, Tiger there was a spark and they just clicked. They had a deep and profound intimate connection which expanded and evolved. It was a spark of “I know you. I know your energy and we’ve been together before.” It was a deep love and familiar feeling of their return. When you sense and feel that allow yourself to explore it because it generally indicates there is more to uncover.

Sometimes you might know companions from past lives, or your true form self might know them. Other times they can be completely new but as you develop your connection you feel the spark between you both. It can be amazing to uncover a past life connection. You can uncover what you were in the past and what you are now. Tiger knows Akelta’s true form self, so it was interesting for her to learn about their connection but also to explore their relationship here. She can see how her connection in this life is also unique and through this life they are able to relearn about each other. It can be a lot of fun to explore the depth of relationships. When you connect with them it’s a like a click a feeling of, I know you. There’s a comfortable, safe, and familiar feeling. There are situations where you’ll meet a companion from a past life and at times if it was an early or unexpected death for someone you can explore a love that could of or should have been.

When you get the feelings of instant recognition and the feeling of home with someone follow it and explore it. Trusting yourself and what you are getting is important. Let yourself build a foundation with your companion and take the time to explore their energies. Find the way you best communicate with them. As you keep learning about each other you’ll learn their quirks. Tiger enjoys making Akelta take breaks by demanding offerings that she can eat. Usually when she’s working hard Tiger will chime in and say I want this as an offering which is usually something she is craving and then he’ll say, and you can eat it. He has ways to make Akelta take breaks and eat while being devotional to him. They do little things together.

Is your true form self someone you were in a past life?

The true form self is who you are at the core of your soul. Past lives are a version you were in another life. Your true form self would be more akin to your higher self. The higher self is connected to the true form self, but the true form self is in a way dormant while we are here. The higher self acts as our guide and guardian while we are here. The higher self is the essence of who we are in our true form self it is similar yet different. They are reflections of each other. The true form self is who we are outside of this universe and outside of the inner spiritual world. The higher self is basically a projection of the true form self.

Having a companion from past lives but feeling shy in this life

It does happen. Take time to explore the relationship, do nice little things for each other. Allow the relationship to develop at a pace you are comfortable with, there’s nothing wrong with that. Some relationships take longer to awaken than others. Even for Akelta some of her connections have taken longer to open than others.

“Feel like a novice but my love for my companions are ever growing”

Spreading love to your companions is awesome. As well as sending love to them, it is a wonderful way to connect. Akelta loves to send her companions love energies and to get gifts for their altars. If she sees something Tiger likes she’ll get it for him and put it on his altar. Akelta will send love to them every day.

What if you have several companion lovers and haven’t connected in a long time?

It’s always possible to reconnect and rekindle the connection. Akelta would recommend setting up an altar and a ritual space to address them and say something like, hey I want to connect with you. Come forward and let’s reconnect. Time works differently for them so what can feel like a long time for us might not be for them. A lot of them understand we have lives here and that we have many things going on, so you don’t need to feel guilty at all. When you do reach out and connect with them again, they are happy to build those bridges and connections.

Being a goof with companions?

Yes, be a goof with them. Have fun with this process and enjoy it. Being silly and playful is one of the best ways to open the energies. Opening up psychic skills often is approached with a lot of seriousness but in truth it doesn’t help much because seriousness causes a rigidity that shuts the senses down. Focus is useful but if you’re playful and open to the energies’ things will flow more easily.

When your companion first come home


When your companion joins you, and you begin to feel that attraction- trust what you’re getting with them and allow it to unfold. A romantic connection with a companion can help awaken and stimulate your abilities in amazing ways. This is because when a companion is intimate with you there is a deep connection that forms between your energies. Through developing this connection, they can act on your energies in a more profound way and can help stimulate different talents and abilities. Companions you become romantic with can help better remove blocks. Additionally, those companions who have an intimate connection with you and know your past lives also can help you on multiple levels since they know what beliefs are holding you back and why. They can know the things you need to work on more easily and how to help you. They might have even helped you overcome these same obstacles in another life and now they can help you step into power here.

Finding more details and clues in scrolls over time

Akelta loves that aspect within the scrolls. From start to finish there is a huge process involved with conjuring. Phase one is finding the being, screening them, and making sure they are safe. They are screened for their identity, that they are who they claim to be and not an imposter or sludge. Phase two is learning about them, who they are, working with and understanding their skills and abilities. When it comes to writing the scrolls, the priestesses open the space up and allow the information to download. During this time, they allow anything the being wants to say come through.

Akelta loves to receive feedback from the scrolls, they often hear how well the scrolls align with someone’s life and speak to synchronicities in their life. It’s like the demons are channeling messages at times and leaving hints in the scroll for their companion. Sometimes the priestesses will get little things that seem out of place to be added in and think “why do they want to add that there?” It may feel random, but they’ll send it out and often the person will come back and say how did they know about this one part.

Akelta has noticed that demons speak in a way that’s multi-layered to be translated for the scroll. Often you will read it the first time and then once you go back and read it again it can feel like a completely different scroll. Eilana has done scrolls for Akelta and Akelta has done scrolls for Eilana and she also loves to go back and re-read them. It’s fun to see how it transforms each time. A lot of people have also reported that they begin to perceive things and get experiences with their companion so when they get the scroll it validates what they are getting. In this way it can help encourage you because your companions want you to trust what you get. Your companions want you to connect with them and help you build a foundation. They want to help you develop your skills and abilities. They leave clues and synergistic signs everywhere as another way to encourage and communicate. When you notice these signs don’t doubt them. Trust what you’re getting and see how your connections develop. With some companions as you explore this further with them, you’ll open deep romances with them.

Is Tiger with Akelta now (during the tea chat)?

Yes, he’s sitting behind her. He usually stays with her sometimes he disappears but he’s generally always around.

Feeling odd at first because of no privacy with companions

Yes, that is true at times. Akelta got used to that element and is shameless with them now. Especially with companions you have a romance with they won’t mind if you fantasize about them in fact many of them join in and help to energetically stimulate you during it. By trusting what you get it can really open up your psychic gifts and help you to understand your abilities.

Improving psychic skills

There are many fun ways of improving psychic skills by connecting with companions. You can start to learn the differences in energies like what fantasizing about them feels like versus channeling information when you are together. Akelta says when you begin to open your psychic senses allow it all to flow. You are receiving information it’s just figuring out where it’s coming from. It can come from within which is your mind, or you are downloading it from a higher source, or experiencing something with your companions. The great thing about being intimate with a companion is exploring and learning to differentiate all of these three aspects.

It can be fun to fantasize with them, to communicate and interact with them. It can also be enjoyable to download info from another time when you were together. You can start to do different exercises with them. Throw yourself into it and allow the information to flow into you. Try it out and note things, like:

• This is what it feels like when I’m fantasizing about them
• This is how it feels when we are talking
• This is what it’s like when I’m downloading info.

Identifying the different sensations can help you refine your senses especially if you’re struggling with it. Figuring out where things are coming from is a great exercise. Whether it’s an experience you’re having with them, from your mind or a channel from higher connection all of those are connected to your psychic gifts. It is all a form of energy moving through you.

There is a lot of shame placed on psychic abilities. A lot of the hurdles people must face is learning to trust themselves and allowing themselves to feel. If you’re intimate with a companion, you can explore things in a very deep way, and it can be far more exciting.

Being a closet witch

If you are a closet witch a good way to practice if you need privacy is to set up an astral temple. You can create a spot in your mind and invite your companions to join you. You can connect with them there.

Demons guiding someone to what they want before the person knows they want it

Yes, they are good at that. They are skilled at guiding us and showing us what they enjoy or desire.

Getting negative voices in your mind

When Akelta hears any negative voices, she categorizes them as sludge. When they come, she immediately identifies it as sludge because she knows Tiger would never say anything like that to her. Sometimes sludge or malicious entities try to sneak in but if you start categorizing the different thoughts, voices, and intuition you get you can begin to identify who is who. For instance, Akelta taught herself that Tiger has a specific tone, sludge has a different tone, Bear has this type of tone and so on with each of her companions. You can figure out which voice is attached to what. If you have a lot of sludge around you and know it’s sludge when the negative voices begin and they are attached to it, you can quickly put it in the corner and not focus on it. When it begins you become aware that it is trying to get in and what it’s saying isn’t important or relevant. This will help you be able to identify it more easily over time.

A voice that sounds like me, but isn’t me

Learning how to distinguish your voice from another is an important skill. When Akelta was figuring out what was going on in her mind, the sludge would try to trick her, and it would try to say mean things. The sludge will say things in your voice so when Akelta realized it wasn’t her she changed her own voice in her head. This way she was once again able to differentiate what was her voice. Laughter also breaks up the tension. When you have moments when you feel overwhelmed or stressed just start laughing and take breaks to laugh. This will help you raise the energies.

Hearing things like “you can punch me”

This is a negative voice. As soon as Akelta hears things like that she tells it “Away with you, you have no power. Go away.” It can be hard in the beginning to counter the projections but taking your power back from it will help you gain control. As you go through the steps to counter it, it gets easier for you to push it away. The more you push it away the more you can distinguish the voices until it gets to the point when it pops up and you can ignore it. Then as you ignore it, the voice becomes quieter until it disappears.

Feeling self-hatred

One things Akelta did when she experienced feelings of self-hatred is to stand in the mirror and send love energies to herself. She would repeat that "she is worthy and that she is a beautiful person". She would say she is worthy of love, acceptance, of connection and continue to send love energy to herself.

The first few times of doing this feels hard and if you burst into tears that’s fine. Just allow yourself to feel those emotions. Work at feeling love and believe in yourself. Acknowledge that you are on this journey and your companions have chosen to walk with you because they see something amazing and incredible in you. They want you to see the amazing person that you are and for you to love yourself.

Frustrating not being to see and hear companions but can feel them

Feeling them is still a great way to start. Clairsentience is Akelta’s strongest sense, she translates by feeling things first. She’ll feel her companions’ words and translate what they are saying through that. She has clairvoyance developed as well but she incorporates everything she does because she finds that it enhances her experience and connection with them. There are different ways to feel and connect with them through clairsentience. This can deepen the sensation of connecting with them to help form deep bonds with them. By practicing connecting with them it can help teach you to receive messages from them through various means. We have many psychic senses and many ways to communicate and connect with them. As you work with your strongest senses you can improve the other senses along the way. If feeling is your strongest sense, then practice deepening that first and those feelings will begin to turn to words, and you can start translating with it. There’s a lot that can be done. Patience is a key part of this path.

A lot of people translate through clairsentience but have doubts because they were told that if you hear something you have to hear it like this or if you see, it must be like this. However, with psychic senses it’s not so black and white. The psychic senses are more broad, diverse, and layered than that. Many people are told they are only psychic if they do something a specific way but that is a wrong approach since that belief will create blocks instead. Each person is unique and there are numerous types of senses. There are so many ways to connect with the energies and translate messages. Clairsentience is such a powerful skill. Akelta can translate messages from feelings into words and feel/see her companions too. She can feel and see where her companions are located. It’s different than feeling with clairvoyance as she’ll get more details with that sense. However, using clairsentience she can feel them, and feel what they are doing. There are so many ways to interpret energies. Go with what you get with your psychic skills and trust it.

Being clairsentience but figuring out who says what


Yes, you’ll be able to practice feeling how each companion uniquely feels with the skill of clairsentience. As you begin to experiment and connect with them you’ll notice how different each of their energies are. This way you’ll be able to get a clear sense of who’s trying to connect with you and what they are wishing to share with you. One thing that’s cool is that Akelta noticed that with clairsentience she can feel the tone of their voice. When she does this it blends with her clairaudience, and she can hear them, so she has begun experimenting with hearing accents, and tones. She’ll use her clairsentience to help bridge that.

Clairaudience is Akelta’s weakest sense, her second strongest is clairvoyance and her first is clairsentience. Therefore, using her clairsentience, she can piggyback off it to help train her clairaudience. Bridging senses is a great technique to use your dominant sense with another sense as it can help improve the other skill more easily. When she bridges her clairaudience with her clairsentience it amazes her how clear she can hear them speaking, she can hear the different tonalities now between companions which lets her figure out who is speaking.

Companions using clairvoyance to communicate with sign language

Your companions will find the best ways to try to communicate with you. The more you work with it the better and easier it will become. One thing you can do is as they are doing sign language you can practice hearing the words in your mind. This can allow you to create a bridge between clairvoyance and clairaudience, using one skill will empower the other. If companions give you a visual sign you can figure out what the word is, hear it in your head and then focus on the energies of it. Thus, when they do it again, you’ll hear the word, so you’ll start to hear words as they are signing. If you’re struggling with hearing words start with yes/no and then evolve to longer sentences. Trust what you are getting.

Practicing clairaudience through automatic writing

Yes, this is a great method. There are many exercises to help develop your skills.

Being able to feel companion’s emotions

This is a form of clairsentience. Each sense has a vast spectrum within it and being able to feel a companion’s emotions is another component within clairsentience. Akelta likes to sit and focus on her companion’s emotions and get lost in it, then they can also get lost in hers. Akelta can feel Tiger’s affection and attraction to her just by focusing on him and getting lost in his energies. Allow the energies to move between both of you and feel them. She uses her clairsentience to help bridge that gap, it’s very beautiful. There are many things you can do.

Someone noticed that companions they connect deeply with get along with spirit family

Akelta noticed that too, that the ones she ends up with and connects with are ones she has a lot of ties with. They all get along and know each other. They know how to work together as they’ve met and known each other in different places. She loves listening to them all interact and watch them all get along with each other. It’s cool to see how they establish themselves in the house and how they develop a system.

How to approach the subject of romance with companions if unsure?

They have already read your mind and know that you are thinking about it. Knowing that they are there and already know how you’re feeling. You can reach out and broach the subject and begin exploring with them. See what feelings you get from them. Usually if they are your companion, they are already open to exploring that with you. They chose to be on this path with you and walk this journey with you so there’s already a connection and a binding there.

Pay attention to the flow of energies and where they go. If you send out energies and feel your companion’s energies coming back, then they are responding to you. They are giving you their own energies, so if you feel that there is already connection bonds forming. Allow yourself to trust where those bonds go and open yourself up to them. They probably already know because they have that connection, this can alleviate some tension. So allow yourself to see where it goes.

“Getting hugs from companions feels amazing”

Yes, it does. Feeling where they are and their energies embracing you can be so soothing, relaxing, and empowering. Sometimes when Akelta is sad having Tiger hold her feels absolutely amazing and makes things better. He helps her through many things.

Does Akelta feel true love or have a deep bond with anyone?

Yes, she does with Tiger. She has others but her and Tiger have a very special and deep connection together. They understand and get each other. He can always reach her no matter what is going on.

Advice to connecting if struggling to discern companion’s feelings

Opening up to yourself about what you want can help. Get in touch with your emotions and begin to feel them. Trust what you get from your companions. Your companions have decided to walk this journey with you so there is already a connection there. Some of their scrolls will mention they want to develop things emotionally so you can know from that alone they want to connect in that way. If it mentions it in the scroll you can begin by connecting with that companion because the foundation and trust is there. You can begin feeling their emotions and explore connections with them.

Many times, if you have a companion and it feels like you are magnetically drawn to them there is something there. They are adding to that energy, so you are feeling that magnetic connection it’s like a sensation of being pulled in, they are feeling a similar thing and that is creating that feeling of attraction. Tiger was very blunt to Akelta when they first connected. Akelta doesn’t open up to demons because of the screening process they’re all amazing but she has to maintain a level of professionalism especially conjuring for others. She makes sure not to get attached to anyone and is closed off in certain aspects with screening, however Tiger got through. She couldn’t deny it when he got through all the screening, and she agreed to be his companion. Some demons have this way about them and if you feel that with one of them go with it because it is also their feelings. It’s their feelings that are returning your feelings.

Any trust exercise for fun times with companions

Ones you can do for romance that Akelta likes to do is doing rituals together. For instance, Akelta likes to offer Tiger tea or anything that he likes. He also like smores when Akelta is craving them so they can eat it together. He likes doing the little things together. Also going out with them is a fun way to connect and build relationships. Akelta has done activities with her companions like going to the movies or going for walks and just chatting with them. You can have little activities to do together because that can build the bonds, connections, and romantic ties. Doing rituals together also helps a lot.

Sometimes it’s hard to realize their feelings because you can feel shocked that they do like you a lot. Many people say they don’t believe their companions can share their feelings. A lot of our companions though choose to go with us, connect, and walk this journey with us so there is already something there. You are already chosen and you should have feel worthy. They want to be here with you so you should feel that worth within yourself, realize there is more that can develop and be explored. The feelings are there, they do like you as you are and want to get to know you. This is why they are on this journey with you.

The big thing is to trust things in the beginning and if you start to feel that magnetic pull trust that there is something there. If you feel the pull that means your companion is reciprocating what you are feeling, and they also want to explore it further. Go into it and see where it goes, how it unfolds, where it takes you and trust that. When you feel that magnetic connection to your companion believe it. Ask them about things they want to do together, this is one way to help with psychic senses is to trust. Sit with them and ask what they want to do, you might get inspiration to do different things and trust what you get. The inspiration might be something you least expect or catches you off guard.

For your companion you can do things like going for a walk, flowers on their altar, offering chocolates- little things that show your affection. Sometimes they just want to hold you and show their affection or want to just send love energies to your heart chakra. It’s beautiful to just lay there and bounce love energies off each other. Once you have the little rituals or activities to do with them, do it. This will help you build your relationship. Have fun with it and see where it goes. They want to be here with you, and they want to be on this journey with YOU. Have fun with the little moments. When Akelta looks back at how her connection with Tiger has evolved and unfolded, they have been through so many stages and it’s amazing to reflect on. In the beginning she was curious about him and now that they are so comfortable with each other, they get each other.


Love-spirit relationship versus human-human relationship not finding someone here

Akelta’s husband knows about Tiger, and he has his own demoness companion too. It balances well. Akelta when she first started connecting with Tiger, she had discussions with her husband and when she found his demoness it all balanced out. It's possible to find people open to this world or who are okay with it. Akelta’s husband even knows how to channel and spends time with her companion, Tiger too. He is psychic as well and can channel messages for her. Akelta said it's possible to incorporate your companions and significant other and include them and that she found love for both possible. There are ways to establish connections between both. Akelta is very upfront and honest and was with her husband when they first met too. It’s very possible to have a spirit lover and a human lover.

The End!

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Re: Tea Chat: Romance with Companions

Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2022 6:01 pm
by Effiriel
Thank you so much WindyJune for your wonderful notes!

Re: Tea Chat: Romance with Companions

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2022 3:35 am
by Senatuq
Fabulous post, thank you! :devilflame:

Re: Tea Chat: Romance with Companions

Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2022 1:25 pm
by windyjune
Vackra wrote:
Mon Mar 28, 2022 6:01 pm
Thank you so much WindyJune for your wonderful notes!
It's my pleasure :devillove:

Re: Tea Chat: Romance with Companions

Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2022 8:46 am
by Wynd Runner
Thank you for the great information. I'll be reviewing this again later.