I too am so grateful to have found this site. I distrusted the "I order you to appear and be my slave" school of working with demons because it seemed very wrong to me for reasons I could not quite put my finger on. Even though I could not pin-point why it was wrong, my feeling was strong enough to not get involved with those folks. My desire to walk the LHP definitely leaned toward Voudun and rootworking. Working with Spirits to learn and grow and help others.
I also could not shake the suspicion that everything I had been taught about demons was self-serving bullshit to frighten people into the "loving" arms of the Church.
I was right. I have yet to order my first DC, but it IS going to happen. I cannot ignore the learning possibilities of having a DC..or two...to say nothing of what DL's are willing to share with us, if we understand their true nature and treat them with the respect that is their due.
Another thing, About twelve years ago I first saw a documentary about Voodoo in New Orleans. The focus was exclusively on New Orleans, with some minor digressions to show it's roots in both ancient African tradition, and what the slaves had to do as they "adapted" to their captivity. A Priestess, if that is the right word, was being interviewed, she said; "You may dance in private, or you may dance in public, but you WILL dance."
Sqweeeeeeeeeee
I'm in! Where do I sign up?