Re: Lord Uphir Third Eye Attunement from Demon Temple!
Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2016 8:51 am
Yes, I understand that I am inexperienced with demons, and esp around those of higher rank. I understand that Lord Uphir was acting as a professional, and that he in no way wants anything other than to do his job. That is not a problem! However, If you want me to say I am not good enough to be a demon's friend or lover simply because I am human...ain't gonna happen! I did speak dis-respectfully of Lord Uphir, and that is why I apologized. To make him into a simple sex object, when he is obviously so much more, when he has EARNED the right to be respected, was wrong. Yep, WRONG. I promise you I never once acted inappropriately. My thoughts are MINE, and I do NOT apologize that I think he is attractive, and has qualities I find desirable. That's it! If I ever groped the man, or said something in front of his staff that was inappropriate, I think the LEAST I would deserve is dumped right out the door! But I did NOT do that! I will attempt to check any unwelcome thoughts in future as well. I understand what I did was the same as a man cat-calling and whistling at a woman and annoying them and making the situation uncomfortable. I get it!Cka75 wrote:
Wow, Suncat.... I don't even know where to begin. I started by trying to be nice and address the topic in a non-personal manner. I was hoping that some gentle guidance on the matter might encourage you to conduct an azimuth check and reevaluate your position. But, instead it looks like you wanted to argue. So, I addressed it again a bit more firmly, but still not in a personal way. I believe that is what Anatel was seeking to do as well. And THIS is your response? OK, I'll do my best to discuss the flaws in your position without making it personal, despite my desire to do so at this point. To be honest, I'm really not sure there is any way to address your last post without making it personal (as you've made it pretty impossible to retort without doing so). The one clearly personal thing I will say is that you've been at this for about 2 months. You need to really consider where you are on your path and listen to the advice of those around you. To not do so is simply arrogant and foolish. I too am on the beginning of my path. And while I won't share all of my personal experiences openly, I can assure you that they have been numerous. At the same time, there is value in knowing that I know nothing. And I am ALWAYS eager to learn more from those around me - especially those with more experience.
First, if you can't see the difference between enjoying demon porn and talking disrespectfully and Pervy about a specific DL, there's a problem. The two aren't even the same. I think everyone will acknowledge that some (many) demons are sexual. Nobody is writing "I had sex with Lucifer/Lilith" porn though. There is a massive difference between sexual encounters with demons generally, and sex with specific DL/more powerful type entities. Not to mention, the nature of the relationship. This is a SERVICE. It's being done in a professional manner. Again, nobody would think it appropriate to start ogling and fondling up their doctor just because they were attractive. So, it does not make any sense to do that with a demon - especially a demon of this stature.
Next, let's discuss YOUR thoughts and feelings on THEIR thoughts of you. Their thoughts of you are theirs. Why would you be so arrogant and presumptuous to think they wanted to have a sexual encounter with you? Do YOU really believe you're that special? You're upset at the notion that they don't want to have sex with you? It sounds like you really need to reevaluate your position in the food chain there. You are unnecessarily trying to elevate your own status to be desirous to a DL. If one wanted you, they would let you know. Otherwise, you might just want to start at the position that DLs aren't wanting to jump your bones. You're not that important. Sorry, but the truth is, none of us are. You (like the rest of us) are human. We, as humans, are not on the same level of demons generally. Much less the level of a dark lord. We are beneath them in the grand scheme of things. I'm sorry if you find that offense. If by sorry, I mean that I'm sorry that I'm not sorry. Your ego is in your way.
Not every demon is sexual. And most of that status simply aren't into humans. While I don't speak for Lord Uphir, I can nearly guarantee you that Uphir is not giving off that vibe. That's simply how you're choosing to interpret it. SSC, I don't want to make this a personal thing. I don't have any problem with you as a person. In fact, if you'll think back on our brief history here, you'll recall that I've come to your defense on more than one occasion. Before you decide to blast back with more emotional responses, please take the time to reevaluate your position. You can find him attractive all day - that's not a problem. But don't disrespect him (or any other DL) by objectifying him this way. It's one thing to find the pretty girl walking down the street pretty. It's an entirely different situation though when you start loudly cat calling her to the others on the block.