So, here at S&S, we don't call this "spirit keeping." Language matters, and because words come pre-loaded with all kinds of attachments, layers and sublayers of meaning, choosing the right words for a thing becomes vital. Spirit keepers easily become spirit collectors. Spirit keepers also easily become spirit slave drivers. Here at S&S, we don't use the terms spirit keeping at all... we use the term demon companion. Admittedly, that doesn't work for anyone who's not a demon, but... I have... two harpies, an incubus, a vampire, two wraiths, and a multitude of temple Fu... and I call all of them companions, as well. It reminds me of the relationship I'm choosing to have with them. Keeping is... too close to bondage. I say all this just so you understand the language changes that have occurred here - this is not a criticism, just an explanation, with the reasoning behind it.
And now on to answering your questions!
So, my companions and I are fairly informal with each other, because I'm easily distracted and so doing the same thing for more than three days in a row is a friggin miracle of epic proportions. (Yay, executive dysfunction!)
They pop in.
I know that a few of them consider taking on a companion to be a project they're doing in their personal time. A couple are actually "on vacation" from their jobs. However, others are still working, and one of the ones who is on "vacation" still has family, a wife and children.
So for me, them popping in works for the most part, but when I am working on something I think they'll be interested in, I reach out to them energetically. It's like... the psychic version of knocking on the front door.
If they are free, they'll come. If they're not, well, I haven't figured out how it's happening but that knock seems to travel to anyone bound to me, so it ends up that if someone can't answer, someone else who is curious will.
I did try the whole, "set a schedule and stick with it" thing. I really did. And if something major were to come up, I would do my "knocking" and with that "knock" would come a formal request, with a human time and date (though I'm not sure why I do that, being as our times and theirs SO don't mesh).
Mostly, though... we're fairly casual here.
If you have a companion, your first couple of months will be getting to know them and their personality, getting to know how often they're available and such. There's a PDF on the S&S blog that's a 21-day bonding ritual experience (ish. really, if one of the exercises isn't working for you, it's recommended you do that exercise more than once, until you're sure you've gotten the most from it you possibly can - so there's 21 exercises, but it may take much longer than 21 days). It's a series of exercises that help you get attuned to your companion's energies, open you up psychically, and get to know your companion well enough to know how your relationship is going to go - whether, like Heretique, they need formality, or like me, a casual relationship works best.
Oh. That bonding ritual can be used with any companion, not just demons, and not just entities. Here's where you can find it.
https://satanandsuns.com/blog/satan-and ... onnecting/
Welcome to the community, and welcome to spirit companionship.
